Parenting and Porn

We can no longer ‘do to’ our teens the way we did when they were smaller and had less power. We used to ‘put’ them in bed and ‘make’ them sit on the potty. These were coercive acts made possible by our larger physique and their dependence on us. Now we have...

What I Do When I’m Feeling Bad

  Today is one of those days when I feel like I don’t know anything about anything. It feels like the world is a little tilted and I’m spending too much time just trying to walk upright. The day started with worry about a comment my cousin posted on Facebook and...